In search of a valentines gift, I was curious about what a man would want? Could it be a shirt, a shoe, a belt, a wrist watch? I just wasn’t sure really, because it would be like buying him the same thing he had; men are not like women that need a shoe to match up with a bag or that have different make up bag or hair accessories, men generally have the same accessories and want. So what can I give a man? Am still asking #lol
The biggest idea I came up with was from my research on the street with those we call gentlemen; they had a charisma that told me all a man needed- yes a good wrist watch, yes a good shoe, yes a good shirt, belt, square pockets, wrist chain but most of all I discovered that what a man needed was respect, support and a smile.
I discovered that a well dressed man must put on a smile, not rush his words like a coward or find his woman cheating- there would be no use buying him anything if he’s a cheat, or if you are.
Men as we come to realize are babies that grew taller; For many of them, its not about the gifts you bought for them- its the way you treat them. Everyone has a love language
It doesn’t matter what you’ve decided to give them this valentine or on their birthdays, take their minds off work when they are with you, don’t always put the blame on them for not going the extra mile to remember you need a green bag or need new clothes; love them like you would love yourself.