A man’s search for what to give his lady for a gift; on her birthday, valentine or a show of appreciation has always been regarded as embarking on a journey of unsure circumstances. Many men search and search and wonder, what would she want this time around? I got her this or that last year, she already has this and that, what would make her happy?
The theory that a woman wants everything may be true but can we indeed give a woman everything? Giving a man a valentine’s gift is as easy as giving a baby milk; you already know what he needs or deserve but giving a woman a gift, regardless of what the occasion is, is a task many men regard as visiting out of space when it really isn’t
Yes a woman wants this and that but have you ever considered the fact that there is more to a woman or your woman than what she wants?
Often times, men jump to the conclusion that getting her a new gadget, a weave or a set of jewellery solves their problem of what a woman wants but what of a honest word on how you feel about her and what you want from what you share, what of a ring to make her woman at home or a time well spent talking about dreams and achievements?
If at anytime you say a lady’s request is something outrageous or something you feel is beyond your budget am sorry to say this but you made her believe you could provide all her needs. A lady would not assume you would buy her a jet if she knows that you earn a little lower than what could buy an aeroplane. If ever she does, you must have given her the assumption that you could
Your lady is not just your woman but your confidant, best friend, second in command and wife; do not feed her with impressions that you can provide all her needs (something many men do when seeking for ladies). You really cannot satisfy a woman
Yes we want the latest shoes, bags, perfumes, cars and all but attending to us as a woman you are in love with is most vital; don’t go cheating, pouring out our sex lives or assuming we want this when we don’t- try and ask us what we really want. We may actually surprise you.
Here are 5 indirect ways of knowing what a woman wants
*She speaks of an item more often
*She stares at an item in the store for too long
*When you are both together, she says how I wish I had that
*Her friends always know
*Its an item you can purchase that she doesn’t have
*She says I would buy that later but hasn’t
Whatever it is, I wish the men the very best. Remember; do not try to understand your woman, know what she likes and dislikes and you will be fine