A man’s search for what to give his lady for a gift; on her birthday, valentine or a show of appreciation has always been regarded as embarking on a journey of unsure circumstances. Many men search and search and wonder, what would she want this time around? I got her this or that last year, she already has this and that, what would make her happy?
The theory that a woman wants everything may be true but can we indeed give a woman everything? Giving a man a valentine’s gift is as easy as giving a baby milk; you already know what he needs or deserve but giving a woman a gift, regardless of what the occasion is, is a task many men regard as visiting out of space when it really isn’t
Yes a woman wants this and that but have you ever considered the fact that there is more to a woman or your woman than what she wants?
Often times, men jump to the conclusion that getting her a new gadget, a weave or a set of jewellery solves their problem of what a woman wants but what of a honest word on how you feel about her and what you want from what you share, what of a ring to make her woman at home or a time well spent talking about dreams and achievements?
If at anytime you say a lady’s request is something outrageous or something you feel is beyond your budget am sorry to say this but you made her believe you could provide all her needs. A lady would not assume you would buy her a jet if she knows that you earn a little lower than what could buy an a plane. If ever she does, you must have given her the assumption that you could.
Your lady is not just your woman but your confidant, best friend, second in command and wife; do not feed her with impressions that you can provide all her needs (something many men do when seeking for ladies). You really cannot satisfy a woman
Yes we want the latest shoes, bags, perfumes, cars and all but attending to us as a woman you are in love with is most vital; don’t go cheating, pouring out our sex lives or assuming we want this when we don’t- try and ask us what we really want. We may actually surprise you.
Here are 5 indirect ways of knowing what a woman wants
*She speaks of an item more often
*She stares at an item in the store for too long
*When you are both together, she says how I wish I had that
*Her friends always know
*Its an item you can purchase that she doesn’t have
*She says I would buy that later but hasn’t
Whatever it is, I wish the men the very best. Remember; do not try to understand your woman, know what she likes and dislikes and you will be fine