Should You Ask For Space In Your Relationship?


Couples often need time apart to carry out personal growth, build self worth and create more want from the other partner. Many a time, this time apart can linger for long time and when it does, the time apart can affect what was a “sweet relationship”. Frequently, research has revealed that it is the men who seek request for this time apart but if ever a woman does requests, it is simply because she has found interest in someone or something else.

For many female partners, asking for a time apart often seems like a break up; Females often build their world around their men, especially when they are in love with them, they tell them every move and tell them every desire and fantasy thus making the male specie belief she has a castle in the sky.

Men find it easy to relate with their friends, in compare to the females who are always at the gossiping, nagging, unfriendly behaviour to other females who either have better wears, better body figure and better attitudes. There is a big contrast between these two genders and this reflects in the way messages are perceived.

Most times when a partner requests for a time apart, it is simply because they no longer find creative ways to keep the relationship interesting and though it might seem okay to do this from time to time, this time apart is one thing that has set some couples totally apart. Some people go as far as not seeing one another for days, weeks and months, as they believe their relationship work better with more time apart.

Some relationships are long distanced but they find time to see one another, some find it hard to see each other often because of the jobs they are involved in; it is always easier when there is a reason but when there isn’t, there simply should be no excuse. Time spent apart should never leave room to invite third parties who we begin to draw attention from.

A healthy relationship considers both parties when time apart is needed. That free time should always put both parties in consideration and not last long enough except it is conducive for both of you to create a place where you no longer need the other person. There are sensitive methods to ask your partner for the time to do what you love. Any space in between could be to put a check on a character that might destroy the relationship or a quarrel that needs both parties to miss each other after.

Do not create a room if it is not needed, do not ask a partner for break in a relationship without making he or she understand that it is because you have something to do, don’t make your partner feel unwanted except you want them no more.

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