Does speaking bad about a sister literally mean you are jealous? Usually girls get all over each other on the issue that one person’s make up is better, or one person’s breast is bigger or one person has an un- usual bum shape and this makes one wonder, “especially the male sexes”- are we ladies jealous of each other?
Jealousy is generally taken to be a relationship syndrome that occurs when a man gives his attention to anyone other than his woman. A woman is not a man’s possession but if at anytime, his time or his finance is spent on someone else which could lead to sensual issues, “his woman” is bound to be jealous. However when this jealousy has nothing to do with such scene, is it still jealousy?
Ladies these days take time out to put on make up, put on accessories and even clothes that make them stand out from others. Take note that this statement concerns a majority of 75%, thus leaving others to be those who take no interest in doing something else to enhance their looks. The belief then is that those who do not enhance themselves, are jealous of those who do.
Women among the opposite sexes are nags, they worry over nothing most times and they create dramas just to get attention either from male counterparts or sometimes themselves; Little wonder when they quarrel with each other it is as if the whole world has been let loose.
A woman as I believe may not possess the beauty of another woman but if ever she sees another and says, “wow, her lips are big, her boobs are too small, her bum is too flat, her nose is too long” it can’t always be because she feels jealousy over the other. Yes she would point out in the other woman what she has or doesn’t have but not all happens because of jealousy.
Women get jealous of things they have that another wants to posses. Pointing out what others have that they don’t have, does not necessarily mean jealousy. It could be a sign of envy and self esteem, it could be because they have a need for it and it could be because they ain’t friends with the other individual and its has created hatred.
Ladies are ladies, they have drama and they create drama. A real woman however controls herself and sees every other woman as beautiful. She compliments others and lends a helping hand when needed, feel free to ask a sister how she does it and remember that not everything that is good for a sister is good for you. #Wink