The hour of the night is usually linked to an hour where many unseen, unusual and even unexplained things are done. Man is often asleep at this time and many do not see or identify a man’s heart especially at times like this because he simply can do things no one can see.
When things are done in the dark, it is hard and most times rare to identify what exactly is being done or who exactly carries out what act, little wonder a link can be made to those things done in the secret.
The human mind has a heart on its own, it has emotions and can always identify when indeed it hurts another or when it goes astray. It can play a major role in one’s life and it is the greatest battlefield anyone can conquer.
Many a time, things we do that hurt others and even ourselves begin behind closed doors, closed hearts and hidden corners. Relationships get broken when parties begin concealed relationships or lifestyle unknown to the other, marriages get destroyed because people involved start looking aside and friends feel betrayed not by things we do staring or accompanying them with but by those things we do when they look aside or least expect it; the unseen usually brings the seen pain.
In hidden spaces, men have torn each other apart. Things have been done behind closed doors and unsaid things have destroyed friendships, relationships and marriages. Quarrels and intolerance have taken people apart, but communication and understanding can be a first step.
The dark hour reveals a man to his friends; it is difficult to forgive him for what he does in the dark time. Forgiving and letting people back into your life is hard but its better to be a teacher than a student with a lot more colleagues (no one is perfect). A shift in friends and partner might seem good at the beginning but personal growth on how we handle issues with others play a bigger role in how we get along with all others.