How To Handle Rejection

Being rejected by a parent, could be detrimental to a person’ life long self esteem, being rejected by a friend could be disappointing but being rejected by self could be the worse of them all. Rejection leaves you wondering. It creates a cloud of thoughts with questions, rhetorical memories and psychological infections. It could mean more than its portrayal and […]

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We All Get Old

As I look at friends I knew and still know on social media, I am gulped with laughter as I imagine how they were when we were all younger and how we often thought we had time for everything- If we remember those days too. It was a phase, that still happens to many around the world. Getting old is […]

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Would You Date You?

So here’s the thing- you know what you want in a relationship. You know the kind of things you want them to say to you and how you want someone to make you feel when you’re with them but do you know how you make someone else feel? I mean if you were with yourself; all alone in this world, […]

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True Love Doesn’t Hurt

True love doesnt hurt! For anyone who has been heart broken before, the title of this piece may sound like a joke but the truth is crazy and as unreal as it may sound- the truth if thought deeply is like a piercing needle that still does its work. No one in a cool, ongoing beautiful relationship thinks they are […]

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Settle But Don’t Settle!

There have been days you never want to hear anything religious; you really don’t want someone telling you “God said…”, “The bible says…”‎, you just don’t want anything biblical that will console you when you’re in distress. You also don’t want a friend saying “It’s going to be alright”, you don’t want a lover saying “I won’t leave you”- not […]

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My Past…

My past is my past; don’t look into it for me. Don’t ask me about it unless you want to stay there. Let me be the one to tell you about it. Don’t dwell on anything I told you about my past either, I can’t get it back and neither can you. When I messed up, I messed up, where I didn’t, I didn’t- it don’t mean am a saint or the devil, it’s just how I thought things ought to be done. If you keep dwelling on my past, it means you want to cook something up from it, something to make me think you are better than me because something in there isn’t in yours. Well, it’s past and that’s the way it’s going to stay. I did somethings out of ignorance, out of naivety and ‎even awesome feelings but what can I say? its past. Am done with it, why shouldn’t you? Just because you want to be a part of my life today or even in the future, you think asking me and knowing about my past qualifies you for staying forever. It doesn’t work that way. Life is what is happening and I am part of the people it happened to. I can understand you asking me though but dwelling on it- no way! Let me tell you whatever I feel obliged to. Don’t force it out. Just let us be. If I did something […]

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Christmas and Giving

What Christmas does to the world is amazing! It’s seems everyday/month/hour/week should be Christmas from forever but sadly it isn’t and that’s why we should all celebrate it. Starvation, war and crime is on the increase around the world and with China citizens buying air for survival, the world seems like a sad place to be but Christmas isn’t a […]

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I Am An Addict

I am an addict. Some people think am the worse person to associate with just because of that but what can I do? I wasn’t addicted at birth, wasn’t addicted on my first day- time just got me hooked and truth is to want to end it because of anyone is to make me begin because of anyone or that […]

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They Can Leave

We always want people in our lives. Even though they are friends or that we enjoy solitude sometimes- we always want someone else to be around us (fake or true ones). We think we don’t want fake people around us but truth is, they are the ones that make us feel sane sometimes. They make us see a different perspective in life and bring us to a place where we understand the balance of sadness and joy. The true friends are those we call family, best friends and even close friends- it’s uncommon introducing someone as a “pal” even though we know that is who they are to us. When we meet someone via another friend and we have to introduce them, we still go on to call them friends and it’s just right since we can call it courtesy. Friends have become lovers, pals have also become lovers, best friends have become strangers and lovers have become haters. It’s not that it’s a merry go round, many of that has happened for reasons beyond explanations and some have just occurred but each time we see people as family, best friends or closest pal- we never expect them to stop being that (if we do, we call it fear).  ‎When they do, they are our WORSE ENEMIES. People leave people and that’s the way it goes. Sometimes there are explanations for it, sometimes there aren’t but they do. Friends, lovers, […]

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Experience

We all have personal experiences that make our lives go round and many people have the same experience, however not many people feel the same way about those experiences. Some get burned by it, some experience it over and over and don’t even realise that it is just an experience, so they see it as a part of life. Everyone […]

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You and Your Freewill…

When my auntie’s son does something he knows you will beat him for, he says ‘sorry it was by accident’; when I tell him, that he will be beaten by accident, he says ‘you’re beating me on purpose’. Implying that though he did what he did with intention, unaware that it may lead to a disaster, he still thinks, beating […]

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Rewrite Your Day

Rewriting one’s story may never be as easy as the words that says ‘rewrite’ but then again, because of the things that happen as life happens, it is often best that when we come to understand the idea of life itself or what kind of life we want to live, we then must rewrite our life. We must forget what […]

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Humility…

Humility is perfect quietness of heart. It is for me to have no trouble; never to be fretted or vexed or irritated or sore or disappointed. It is to expect nothing, to wonder at nothing that is done to me, to feel nothing done against me. It is to be at rest when nobody praises me and when I am […]

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