Would You Date You?

So here’s the thing- you know what you want in a relationship. You know the kind of things you want them to say to you and how you want someone to make you feel when you’re with them but do you know how you make someone else feel? I mean if you were with yourself; all alone in this world, […]

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True Love Doesn’t Hurt

True love doesnt hurt! For anyone who has been heart broken before, the title of this piece may sound like a joke but the truth is crazy and as unreal as it may sound- the truth if thought deeply is like a piercing needle that still does its work. No one in a cool, ongoing beautiful relationship thinks they are […]

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CONVENIENT LOVE?

Regardless of war, famine or hatred; love always exists. It rules mankind; from the birth of a child, to the day of a wedding; to even the day one begins to love someone other than themselves. This love could be sad or happy, it could be mad or awesome, it could come from anyone at anytime and it could be […]

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BENEFITS OF CELIBACY

You will be biblically and spiritually sound. (Leviticus 20: 10-21, Acts 15:20, Colossians 3:5, Proverbs 5: 3-81 Corinthians 6: 9, 13, 151 Thessalonians 4: 3-8, Proverbs 7: 21-27, Galatians 5:9Hebrews 13:4   Enjoy feelings of self worth, empowerment and individuality.   Socialize with and date the opposite sex without the pressures and awkwardness of negotiating sex.   Know that someone loves you for who you […]

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A Partner That Prays

Like a mother prays for her child, many partners in relationships/marriages pray for those they are involved with. At first, it may never seem essential as the wave of love is always the tide that blows but a little realization of things to come, often reveal that in loving people, we also become a part of them and they us. […]

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HE’s NOT GONNA MARRY YOU ANYTIME SOON!

The “help me until I’m ready” guy. The “need help” type is totally entrenched in his own insecurities. He only talks about his own problems — never yours — but he wants a lady by his side because it makes him feel worthy. So, he keeps her there by asking her to help him “until he’s ready.” But, guess what: He’ll never be ready, and so, he is not husband material. The “dare to discuss marriage” guy. Since he knows women believe in words not actions, he dares talk about marriage and future plans with you, knowing it’s what you want to hear. But that’s all he’ll do; no further action is ever taken. There is never a time frame for actions; actions are even never discussed, and if they come up, the conversation suddenly goes in different directions. The “be my guest and discuss marriage” guy. This guy lets you do all the talking about marriage you like. He knows you dream about it; he listens to you discuss it in great detail — where your home will be, what kind of furniture you’ll buy, what kind of wedding you want. And when you ask him about dreams, he says, “Whatever you want, honey.” Always look at his actions. If there aren’t any, if he’s all talk, he’s not husband material. The “bear with me” guy. He finds nice, logical excuses that seem acceptable. You know, he can’t take action now because […]

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Two Types Of Cheating Men

Saw this on facebook and had to share… Men who Cheat and Men who are Cheaters A man who cheats is a Man who makes a MISTAKE and regrets it…the man who is remorseful and apologizes, not because he got caught, but because he is really sorry that he HURT you. A man who is a CHEATER, has a character flaw. This is the man who cheats with no remorse, unless or until he is caught. The man who cheats over and over with a sense of entitlement. Cheaters say things like “I am a Man” its in our nature. Cheaters have no remorse and JUSTIFY the action instead of apologizing. They JUSTIFY, they have a WHY and the WHY usually has something to do with YOU. Cheaters are insatiable. You can recognize them by the way that they interact with women. Everybody is fair game. They want the attention and the validation and are usually HUGE flirts. Ladies, you can forgive the man that cheats, but if you have a CHEATER on your hands….be prepared for a painful journey. These men do NOT know true intimacy. Their life is a lie and they spend their time in relationships in deceit. You can never be intimate where there is dishonesty. Recognize a cheater, he wont stop….and you will never truly have his heart.

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Cutting Off Relationships…

I was out with a friend who gave me a story about a couple who met in London; the guy had a setback while schooling in Nigeria he had to come into the UK to start his undergraduate again. The lady had done her undergraduate in Nigeria and was in London for her Masters- they were together for the years in London but she had to return to Nigeria but before she did, the guy in question broke up with her months before. His reason was that he didn’t know what he would do next and that he felt he would waste her time as he felt that she was not getting any younger and he was still going on in school and she was through. Well according to my friend the lady is married in Nigeria.   While listening I couldn’t help but wonder do people get scared of their future in relationships? If we go in knowing how a relationship would end, would we treat those people the same way we would treat them? There are always reasons why relationships won’t end up in marriages but then again are there people in relationships who love each other but see no reason to be with each other?   I hate blogging or talking about relationships because the topic is endless- you never know how to end the discussion or who might think you are opinionated about it even if […]

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